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  • #31
    What the hell, that is an absolutely insane situation to be in, so sorry to hear that and I can't even imagine!

    As others have said top priority is your boys.. also, be sure to audio record your conversations with her, if/when it goes to court you have evidence you were civil and composed. Ive had clients who had such extreme left field situations that if they just had the evidence they hoped they wouldn't have been in such a mess... But also ask your attorney about the recording thing..

    And I believe once you have the attorney on board any and all communication goes thru them.

    Thoughts are with ya, hope you can keep yourself busy and occupied so racing mind doesn't get the best of you!

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    • #32
      Originally posted by greekelite View Post
      What the hell, that is an absolutely insane situation to be in, so sorry to hear that and I can't even imagine!

      As others have said top priority is your boys.. also, be sure to audio record your conversations with her, if/when it goes to court you have evidence you were civil and composed. Ive had clients who had such extreme left field situations that if they just had the evidence they hoped they wouldn't have been in such a mess... But also ask your attorney about the recording thing..

      And I believe once you have the attorney on board any and all communication goes thru them.

      Thoughts are with ya, hope you can keep yourself busy and occupied so racing mind doesn't get the best of you!

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      I know from some of my responses here itís probably difficult to imagine that Iíve remained pretty calm, but I really have. It became heated a little on the phone when she said I canít have the boys over Wednesday because it wasnít convenient for her. Her response was, ďI donít want you to know where I liveĒ. My reply to her was that it wasnít lawful for her to deny me knowing where my kids lived, but I wasnít a jerk about it. I offered to pick them up and it was still a NO!

      Iíd love to record every conversation but Iím 99.9% sure at least here in Ohio that itís a felony to record a phone conversation without the others knowledge. At the very least it wouldnít be admissible (because my attorney would tell me itís a crime:)). So no point there, although I wish there was.

      I find it interesting that Iím the one accused of all the wrongdoing, yet sheís the one that is actually doing it.

      But again, donít care. I want my boys to get through this as whole as possible.

      Her stated reason is that she doesnít want me to pick up my car that she drives and take off with it. Never mind the fact that I know where she works and if I wanted to do that Iíd have already done so. Probably should even, since sheís screwed me over every chance she can get. But Iím not going to because that wouldnít benefit my boys. There may come a time for that, but for now Iím just trying to remain calm even though the dumpster fire is less than a stones throw away.
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      • #33
        What a tough situation. I canít really offer any good advice. I just wanted to wish you the best working through this awful time.


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        • #34
          Sorry to hear Smiter. Best of luck with everything.
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          • #35
            My God. That's awful! Please lean on THP. Take care.
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            • #36
              Hang in there dude. Things have a way of working themselves out.
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              • #37
                Wow. Sorry to hear about all of this and what you are going through. I think itís going to be important for you to speak with the attorney and listen to what he or she has to say.

                Best of luck my friend.
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                • #38
                  Damn man. Easier said than done but keep your head up.

                  I know you mentioned the equipment and such from the event but THP will always be here. Life comes first man, take care of that first.
                  Brian
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                  • #39
                    I'm sorry that you're going through this, I cannot imagine how you're feeling nor can I offer any advice from life experiences. All I can say is that I hope everything works out in the end buddy.
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                    • #40
                      Hoping for the best for you. But like others have said - please take care of yourself.
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                      • #41
                        This totally sucks. But the one glimmer of hope in there is that you got the kids for at least one night so far. Definitely do everything through the attorney. You don't want to make anything worse, even if accidentally.

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                        • #42
                          Sorry to hear this man. Good luck going forward, hope the best
                          - Randy

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                          • #43
                            Originally posted by Smiter View Post
                            Iíd love to record every conversation but Iím 99.9% sure at least here in Ohio that itís a felony to record a phone conversation without the others knowledge. At the very least it wouldnít be admissible (because my attorney would tell me itís a crime:)). So no point there, although I wish there was.
                            Feel free to run it by your attorney, but if this is current, I think you're in the clear.

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                            • #44
                              Wow... Thoughts go out to you during this life changing situation.

                              Keep your head up and keep fighting the good fight for your kids. Best wishes...


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                              • #45
                                Sorry for the shock, your handling it better than most...when life gets tough smile...the good is coming. Their will be a silver lining, just be patient and excel at other things you can around you...keep busy, stay around good people, volunteer, run a tied day for a good nites sleep.
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