You know what though? Those weekends (and maybe some late day) golfing is often the only time most people can go. I mentioned earlier the pace where I use to live was indeed an area where 5 to 5 and a half was quite normal. BUt we had no choice because either we put up with it or we didnt play at all. And yet everyone still played, the courses were still jam packed with 4somes and new people still came. It sucked at times no doubt but everyone still played anyway. If you were pressed for time you simply left after 9 or whenever it was convenient for you to leave.
I personally feel 3 hr rounds for a 3some or a 4some is too fast. I know a lot of people claim they golf in 3 to 3.5 but I also know a lot of people are more obsessed and proud with playing fast than they are with the actual playing. Golf for most is a recreation Imo and wasnt meant to be rushed but was meant to be a casual enjoyment. I know people say they play that fast and never feel rushed at all doing it but at some point when does it go from being the leisurely recreational enjoyment that it is suppose to be to then feeling like a work assignment or a chore? I know some people love to play that way but For many people a big part of their choice of recreation which we call golf is to be able to soak in the surroundings and the environment without it feeling like your on a mission.
Through the years i have played many rounds well under 4 and near the 3.5 hr mark. And fwiw Ive done so while shooting in the upper 80's and also plenty while shooting near or even over 100 too. On a side note, thats why I know that tees and poor play dont at all have to be a pace issue. But back to my point, I feel when finishing that quick it sort of takes away from the enjoyment too. Imo its like "my golf is done for the day".
One time that I was with a group where as we finished in about 3.5. And so one the guys says aloud to the whole group "now thats how to get it done!" And so my response to him was, "I didnt know I came to play just to get it done and over with"
3 to 3.5 hours does not involve any rushing for me or my golf buddies as a threesome or foursome. We just play ready golf and are less deliberate on the greens than many golfers. In the UK most golfers walk and the normal time for a round of golf is 3:45 or less. Sadly the norm at many public U.S. courses has become 4:20 and at manny places 5 hours plus can be the norm. If you consider travel time to and from the course it easily can take 6-7 hours which makes many golfers I know to choose not to play that day.