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Rant is I can't make the Ultimate Testing, due to conflict with work. So once again I will be loving vicariously through others posts and picts.
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Were you going on 75? The whole interstate was blocked bc of a wreck in Kennesaw.
My wife and I want to switch our healthcare plans this upcoming year. Problem is her open enrollment ends December 2nd. My company is so far behind because they are looking at all their options, they won't even begin our open enrollment meetings until the week of December 2nd. We're currently using my company's plan. Eff!
Could be worse. You could be trying to get on the exchange.
All right...it's story time in the hopes it may benefit our young golfing Jedi, JT.
(Everyone else can ignore this part LOL)
My wife and I were dating for a year when I joined the Air Force (1988). It took me a few months to actually leave for basic but we had every intention of sticking it out and seeing if it would work. She even visited me in Colorado when I was in technical training after basic. It was all going well, until that day I got orders to Germany.
We talked about it (BIG phone bills, remember the timeframe here....no cells or PCs) a lot and decided we were both too young (21 and 19) and dumb to get married just because I was going overseas. So, as crappy as it was, we broke up and I left. We kept in touch through letters and I visited her when I transfered from Germany to Phoenix, AZ. Now stateside, we could chat on the phone on occasion again, and did, and I would visit for a short while when I came home for holidays and such from AZ. Whlie all this is going on, for almost 5 years, we both end up dating again, and actually are in some pretty serious relationships, but we just remained friends throught that time.
Now, it's Christmas of 1992 and I go home to visit the family. She and I went out one night for our annual catch-up when something hit me. She was still pretty cool to hang out with; probably cooler than ever. So, we go out again, and again, and I ended up spending time with her something like 8 of the 14 days I was home on vacation.
Back in Phoenix the phone bills start piling up because now we're pretty much dating by phone. I'd broken it off with my girl (turns out she was cra-zazy!) and my wife was second-guessing her own deal. Phone call after phone call, letter after letter, we 'dated' until I went home again in the spring of 1993. Things had seriously evolved and I figured, WTH, and asked her to marry me. Pretty much on a whim at this point, she said yes. So, back in Phoenix, she arrives for a visit in the dead of summer and I pick her up in my '73 Nova with vinyl seats, AM radio, and NO A/C. She stayed in my dorm room that night and the next day we went to the Justice of the Peace and got hitched up. We moved what very littel I owned into a very small apartment that weekend.
We've now been married over twenty years!
Why tell that obnoxiously boring and pointless to everyone story? Because my wife always said, all the way back to the day I got those orders to go overseas, "if it was meant to be, it will be" and it's something that came true. I guess it was meant to be.
Seriously, our whole relationship was based on "If you love it, set it free. If it comes back, it was ....blah blah blah..." you know the story.
If it wasn't, there are a billion other chicks out there.
Rant: Being the one that can separate emotion out of the equation. Usually results in bad guy status.
But it's a short lived status dude, in due time the equation becomes balanced when calmer heads prevail. That's my experience anyway.Rant: Being the one that can separate emotion out of the equation. Usually results in bad guy status.
2nd night in a row with no sleep. Baby has been up crying all night. She has another virus with a high temp. I feel so bad for her. But to attempt to be positive here we are cuddling in the bed watching the Wizard of Oz so it isn't all bad.
Freakin town homes. I know it's not even 10 PM but my little girl is sleeping and this base line sucks anyways. I will never share a wall with other people ever again. I'm giving them until 10:30.
I hated sharing a wall. I did it four times many years ago and always hated it.
I'm losing my mind.