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I'm either golfing or wishing I was golfing
I've come to realize, young kids pick up on a lot more and notice a lot more than we think.
Do they ever
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I've come to realize, young kids pick up on a lot more and notice a lot more than we think.
This might come off extremely stupid and/or selfish.
For all of the dads/parents on here with two kids.... Did you ever have a thought of not being able to love your second child as much as your 1st? Me and my wife both want another child, but I keep getting the thought of not being able to love another human as much as I do my son. I often get misty eyed thinking about my son not getting all of the attention and him being upset because the baby is getting the attention.
Perhaps I am the only person that thinks like this, but I hope some folks can relate.
This might come off extremely stupid and/or selfish.
For all of the dads/parents on here with two kids.... Did you ever have a thought of not being able to love your second child as much as your 1st? Me and my wife both want another child, but I keep getting the thought of not being able to love another human as much as I do my son. I often get misty eyed thinking about my son not getting all of the attention and him being upset because the baby is getting the attention.
Perhaps I am the only person that thinks like this, but I hope some folks can relate.
Hang in there buddy, that does suck, we went through that with my mom in law last year, she had my daughter every day before and after, and they both loved it, then she dropped a bomb that she didn't want to do it anymore, so we scrambled to find someone, and we got lucky with a college student who could come over before/after.So, this family "riff", for lack of a better term, is killing me.
Lotte is happier than ever before w/ my gma daily, shes on a routine, learning, and is all laughs because she's engaged all day. Plus, my gma is my gma again for the first time since my grandpa passed 9 years ago. So all is good there, I adore it, its well worth the 2+ hours driving each day.
But there is a coldness and almost cut-off feeling coming from the other side now, where Lotte was kept 4 days a week half of last school year and was loved/adored. It was asked if we had day care yet a couple weeks before school started out of nowhere because it was a lot of stress to watch her daily and that was a shock to us, so we got on wait lists, freaked out, and eventually were saved by my gma taking her on to keep her out of daycare. Lotte is happy, but I almost feel guilty that they are missing SO MUCH now, heck its been over 2 weeks now since shes seen them and since then shes taller, babbling nonstop, crawling, standing, and close as all get out to words. This breaks my heart and because shes at my gmas now there is almost an attitude like we cut them off? I don't know. It SUCKS.
Sorry all, I just needed to vent a bit.
Your feelings are completely normal.This might come off extremely stupid and/or selfish.
For all of the dads/parents on here with two kids.... Did you ever have a thought of not being able to love your second child as much as your 1st? Me and my wife both want another child, but I keep getting the thought of not being able to love another human as much as I do my son. I often get misty eyed thinking about my son not getting all of the attention and him being upset because the baby is getting the attention.
Perhaps I am the only person that thinks like this, but I hope some folks can relate.
Maybe something as simple as calling them up in a few weeks and inviting them out to dinner? Let them see their g/daughter and play with her. I get the feeling you are a more direct person (like myself) but sometimes perhaps the other way is better????So, this family "riff", for lack of a better term, is killing me.
Lotte is happier than ever before w/ my gma daily, shes on a routine, learning, and is all laughs because she's engaged all day. Plus, my gma is my gma again for the first time since my grandpa passed 9 years ago. So all is good there, I adore it, its well worth the 2+ hours driving each day.
But there is a coldness and almost cut-off feeling coming from the other side now, where Lotte was kept 4 days a week half of last school year and was loved/adored. It was asked if we had day care yet a couple weeks before school started out of nowhere because it was a lot of stress to watch her daily and that was a shock to us, so we got on wait lists, freaked out, and eventually were saved by my gma taking her on to keep her out of daycare. Lotte is happy, but I almost feel guilty that they are missing SO MUCH now, heck its been over 2 weeks now since shes seen them and since then shes taller, babbling nonstop, crawling, standing, and close as all get out to words. This breaks my heart and because shes at my gmas now there is almost an attitude like we cut them off? I don't know. It SUCKS.
Sorry all, I just needed to vent a bit.
Thanks UglySwing, I hope that is the case. He asks for me to come always maybe he thinks I will be lonely. And yes I am if I had it my way he would live with me. But that cannot happen. We always make the most of our times together and have many great memories and have our own special specials where to go to get away from it all. CheersI bet there is a really good chance he's crying not simply b/c he's going to miss you, but b/c he's actually worried about you, and it makes him sad to think you are the one that's sad.
I remember going away for my first hockey tournament when I was a kid. My mom and sister were out of the country, and my dad couldn't come with me (we were going to be gone for a week or two).
I was heart broken saying goodbye to my dad, and it took everything I had to not cry. I wasn't crying b/c I was going to miss him, but b/c I was sad for him, and thought he'd be lonely.
My little 7 yr old went to Canada and was really sad before leaving. I was staying behind and meeting them up there a week later.
I thought she was crying b/c she was going to miss me. It turns out she felt bad for me (I was looking forward to daily rounds of golf without getting in trouble from my wife).
She made me promise that I would have my best buddy come over and sleep over every night. I lied and told her I would....and just like that, she was totally fine with me staying behind.
You are building a great bond with your son that will last a lifetime. Just talk to him and make sure he knows that you are fine.
Awesome news Dan!Hey, would you guys/gals mind if I joined you in here?
Awww snap, congrats!Hey, would you guys/gals mind if I joined you in here?
Congrats buddy!Hey, would you guys/gals mind if I joined you in here?
Never done it, but I guarantee you could use one of those ratcheting tie down straps to act like a seat belt to hold it in place.Soo... Tutorials for a babyseat on the golf cart, anyone?
So glad to see this thread pop back up... I need baby proofing advice these little dudes are all over the place haha
Congrats to both of you!Hey, would you guys/gals mind if I joined you in here?
Congratulations. Welcome to the land of the sleep deprived!Hey, would you guys/gals mind if I joined you in here?
Welcome to the jungleHey, would you guys/gals mind if I joined you in here?
We use the toilet bowl lock as well ... kid would love to play with the water in the bowl if we'd let him (we don't).Plenty of gates and the magnetic cabinet and drawer locks are nice, doorknob covers. Anchor any heavy shelves, dressers, TVs, etc..
We use the toilet bowl lock as well ... kid would love to play with the water in the bowl if we'd let him (we don't).
Soo... Tutorials for a babyseat on the golf cart, anyone?
Never done it, but I guarantee you could use one of those ratcheting tie down straps to act like a seat belt to hold it in place.
Congratulations. Welcome to the land of the sleep deprived!