Luchnia
You will never conquer golf.
Playing golf four days in a row this week and at my age I am a little tired, but still got 18 to go today. Yesterday though, four of us played and a guy that I play with fairly often just has such a negative attitude and bad strikes just take him down a road of despair. If anyone should be negative it should have been me.
My game was decent however my score was high for me and I could go there, but don't allow myself to. I keep my attitude in check at all times and often I am even lightly humorous about the bad shots knowing I am human and that they are history and move on to the next shot. The other two guys were rock solid and might make a comment now and then when a bad shot occurred but never super negative about it at all. They know it is golf and accept the bad with the good.
The bad on course attitude is a fun killer if you ask me and yesterday I was thinking in my mind that my buddy should do something to keep calm. I am noticing how it takes him down a bad road and he cannot find anything good about his game and from what I can tell ruins his fun outing as well as finding decent shots.
I have constantly tried to influence him to relax, have fun, and take it easy, but so far just doesn't seem to work. Do you know people like this and can anything be done to help them, or just let them simply grovel along trudging through the mire of frustration while holding back your words? I know he loves golf, yet struggles so much and it has gotten to the point that I am not wanting to play with him much at all now.
Your thoughts?
My game was decent however my score was high for me and I could go there, but don't allow myself to. I keep my attitude in check at all times and often I am even lightly humorous about the bad shots knowing I am human and that they are history and move on to the next shot. The other two guys were rock solid and might make a comment now and then when a bad shot occurred but never super negative about it at all. They know it is golf and accept the bad with the good.
The bad on course attitude is a fun killer if you ask me and yesterday I was thinking in my mind that my buddy should do something to keep calm. I am noticing how it takes him down a bad road and he cannot find anything good about his game and from what I can tell ruins his fun outing as well as finding decent shots.
I have constantly tried to influence him to relax, have fun, and take it easy, but so far just doesn't seem to work. Do you know people like this and can anything be done to help them, or just let them simply grovel along trudging through the mire of frustration while holding back your words? I know he loves golf, yet struggles so much and it has gotten to the point that I am not wanting to play with him much at all now.
Your thoughts?