Really the only time I honk at anyone is when I’m trying to avoid getting hit. (ie, someone trying to come over into my lane. Pulling out directly in front of me, etc).
We do this periodically and it’s a lot of fun. It allows you to get a bit more creative and also makes you think about strategy where/how to play certain shots.
I normally go with 3w, 6i,9i, GW. I putt with my GW when we do these type of games.