icroth
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I don't post too often here, but I do love reading everyone's posts and thought that someone here could comment on a thought I had today after a round of golf at Atlantis Golf Club in Tuckerton, New Jersey....
Getting to play a round of golf is a real treat for me. Financially, I can't afford to shell out for a round or 2 every weeks. That's ok though because I'm kind of new to the game and don't want to get in anyone's way. I've played 5 times (today was the 5th) and have never shot a real admirable score, but is there something to be said for the friendliness and welcoming attitude of staff at a golf course? Every time I've gone to play, at 3 different courses, I've always felt like I was somewhere I wasn't supposed to be. I know I'm not great, but I always get the feeling that I shouldn't take too big of a divot, or look for my ball for too long, or mess up a bunker because someone on the staff will condemn me for it.
For example, today I played a round by myself. Due to COVID-19 tee times were split 20 minutes apart. I played behind 2 older men and never really got close to them. If I did get behind them I always waited until they cleared the area where I was going to shoot my next shot, took my practice swings, and hit and never thought second of it. The two men, dressed to the nines and ready for Sunday at Augusta, never looked back at me and never motioned me to play through so I just took my time. No big deal. At the end of the round the two men were waiting for me on the 18th green and it looked as though I owed them money. Before I had a chance to make some new friends and ask how their round went one of the men aggressively confronted me about my "playing etiquette." I was really taken aback and told the man that I just wanted to enjoy a cheap round of golf and never wanted to get in their way. The other man announced they didn't pay for their round because he was the superintendent. I politely apologized (for doing nothing wrong) but the two kept pestering me on the 18th.
For another example, I played a round at another golf course last month for around $25. I was really excited because it was a course I always drove by but have never gotten to play. When I went to the clubhouse to book a tee time, because there was no online setup, I asked what was the earliest time the gentleman had available. He was rather standoffish and said to me "that wasn't how it worked" and he'd get me out when he said so. Now, I might be a p**sy and non-confrontational, but sincerely I didn't know that was how it was supposed to work. In addition, on my way to the first tee, a groundskeeper approached me during my practice swings and rather rudely explained to me that if I drove the golf cart too close to any tee box there was going to be a problem.
I'm typing all this just to see if anyone else has had these sort of problems. Are all golf courses run by pompous snobs and wanna-be USGA starters? Or is it that they can tell that I'm a high handicap and therefor a risk to their golf course and others? The way I see it, I pay the same amount of money as everyone else (in the case of today I paid more) and should feel like I am welcome on their golf course no matter how good or bad I am. Does anyone else feel like when they play they are "legally trespassing" on someone else's turf? Please let me know if I'm in the wrong for being polite and oblivious to how certain golf courses do things or if I just need to grow a pair and stand-up for the money I paid.