drp3434
I'm either golfing or wishing I was golfing
I am not sure that style points really matter in any type of handicapping. But like noted and long-time Packer's fan @drp3434 said, your playing partner made a heck of an up and down from a trap, and you had an off hole putting. So I don't see anything really wrong here, unless the point is that someone who tops a shot should be penalized more than the result (which I totally agree with as someone who 100% did not top each of his drives on hole 1 of the Budget Golf Championship on two consecutive days). I am sure your overall score was rewarded having hit 11 of 18 greens, seems it sounds like you were golfing your ball well from the fairway, and your playing partner was struggling at times.
I would also argue that had there been a different color stake (white vs red) then none of this would have mattered. But the classification of out of bounds vs hazard for fairway boundaries has been long discussed on this form in another thread, with similar passion to what this thread has created.