I've put it before but I have a strange story with this.
My wife is actually the one who got me into golf and who encourages that I go out. I mean, we're really busy with working 60+ hours a week, she works FT and we have 2 kids under 4.
Just this morning she was like "You might want to think about golfing Friday so we can go out Saturday and I'm gone on Sunday" kind of out of the blue. Problem is that it's supposed to rain on Friday so I'll go between do we go if it doesn't rain or do I skip playing in the rain.
She also helped me find a babysitter that she's comfortable with for golf nights so it's easier for me to go while she's at work.
What I have found most helpful is that we have a great relationship with regards to expectations. She knows that I need some alone time, she knows that I really like to go golfing, fishing, day hikes (which will turn into overnight backpacking this year) etc. I know that she has things that she needs as well so we coordinate them out in advance and then also understand that stuff comes up and maybe a bad day at work means I don't want to go out golfing, or maybe it means I really need some time to myself.
I don't know what to say other than we schedule our lives because of how busy they are and it's been working for us - however it's not perfect but it's a good start.
My wife is actually the one who got me into golf and who encourages that I go out. I mean, we're really busy with working 60+ hours a week, she works FT and we have 2 kids under 4.
Just this morning she was like "You might want to think about golfing Friday so we can go out Saturday and I'm gone on Sunday" kind of out of the blue. Problem is that it's supposed to rain on Friday so I'll go between do we go if it doesn't rain or do I skip playing in the rain.
She also helped me find a babysitter that she's comfortable with for golf nights so it's easier for me to go while she's at work.
What I have found most helpful is that we have a great relationship with regards to expectations. She knows that I need some alone time, she knows that I really like to go golfing, fishing, day hikes (which will turn into overnight backpacking this year) etc. I know that she has things that she needs as well so we coordinate them out in advance and then also understand that stuff comes up and maybe a bad day at work means I don't want to go out golfing, or maybe it means I really need some time to myself.
I don't know what to say other than we schedule our lives because of how busy they are and it's been working for us - however it's not perfect but it's a good start.