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Sweet Trajectory
I searched and only found one older thread pertaining to golf/parenting and it seemed to center mostly on littler kids just getting their first clubs and whatnot. But I figure I can't be the only one who has kids that are a little older and starting to enter the realm of competitive golf, so I thought a thread for parents like me might be cool, because I know I've already run into decisions that I wasn't sure how to make. Guiding kids through their golf development is pretty complicated, at least from what I can tell so far. I know that I would personally enjoy being able to bounce ideas off of other parents who are making similar decisions, or those whose kids have already gone through these stages and have some wisdom they'd be willing to share.
Here's a little breakdown of my situation:
My oldest is 13 and about a quarter of the way into his first season of middle school golf. He's had a couple of lessons, from different coaches, a couple of years ago. Mostly, he's got his natural swing and just practices and plays to get better. I've giving him a few pointers, as far as chipping and putting and general strategy/course management. When we're playing a round together, I'm normally giving him advice on those types of things, rather than actually mess with his swing. I'm not qualified for that and I actually think his natural swing is pretty good. He could definitely stand to learn how to hit down on the ball and compress it more, but I'm going to wait for an instructor to give him a game plan. Which is really my biggest question with him right now. I don't know whether to start him with lessons right away, or wait until after the school season is over. I can see an argument for both sides. He's #1 or #2 on the team every week, so he's not struggling in terms of being one of the better players. For that reason, I'm a little heasatent, because I don't want him to take a step backward and lose confidence during the season. On the other hand, I think kids probably pick up what they're being taught faster than we do and the fact that he's out playing 4 or 5 times a week right now would make it the perfect time to get the lessons and really work on what he's learning.
I'm open to thoughts on that!
My oldest daughter is 12 and will play middle school golf in the fall. She'll be doing lessons this summer, so not much trepidation for me involving her at this point. Youngest is a 9-year-old girl who loves golf, but she's got plenty of time to work on the game before 7th grade.
Anyway, if anyone else has experiences they'd like to share or questions about their kids' golf games through the middle school and high school years (heck, even college would be really interesting, since that's my kids' goal), let's talk about 'em.
Here's a little breakdown of my situation:
My oldest is 13 and about a quarter of the way into his first season of middle school golf. He's had a couple of lessons, from different coaches, a couple of years ago. Mostly, he's got his natural swing and just practices and plays to get better. I've giving him a few pointers, as far as chipping and putting and general strategy/course management. When we're playing a round together, I'm normally giving him advice on those types of things, rather than actually mess with his swing. I'm not qualified for that and I actually think his natural swing is pretty good. He could definitely stand to learn how to hit down on the ball and compress it more, but I'm going to wait for an instructor to give him a game plan. Which is really my biggest question with him right now. I don't know whether to start him with lessons right away, or wait until after the school season is over. I can see an argument for both sides. He's #1 or #2 on the team every week, so he's not struggling in terms of being one of the better players. For that reason, I'm a little heasatent, because I don't want him to take a step backward and lose confidence during the season. On the other hand, I think kids probably pick up what they're being taught faster than we do and the fact that he's out playing 4 or 5 times a week right now would make it the perfect time to get the lessons and really work on what he's learning.
I'm open to thoughts on that!
My oldest daughter is 12 and will play middle school golf in the fall. She'll be doing lessons this summer, so not much trepidation for me involving her at this point. Youngest is a 9-year-old girl who loves golf, but she's got plenty of time to work on the game before 7th grade.
Anyway, if anyone else has experiences they'd like to share or questions about their kids' golf games through the middle school and high school years (heck, even college would be really interesting, since that's my kids' goal), let's talk about 'em.