MattStub
New member
So we have a small guys trip planned to the Austin area in a couple of weeks with a group of guys from college. One of our regular playing partners claims an 11 for a handicap (via TheGrint, low attest rate). Typically we just let him play his game and then just wonder how or why he claims the scores he does. For instance when we played Karsten Creek last month, he claimed to score a 103, when the rest of the group had him down for a 119. The only reason its frustrating is because I shot a 118 (I am a 29 Handicap) with some blow up holes, and he's been going around bragging and telling people that he shot the best round out of the group at a very difficult course. I am the high handicap, the other guys in my group are 9-12.
We have come to a crossroads as there will most likely be "bragging rights" of some kinds up for grabs on this trip, but its hard to feel sure about it when you know one in the group is capable of shaving that many strokes off their scorecard. And it's way too frustrating to have to nanny someone through their whole round when we are playing 2 rounds a day. Has anyone else had any success on lining out some ethics in a person without making them feel alienated? We had discussed making some local rules (lots of forced carries, keeping pace of play, etc) for the round and outlining any broad issues there so that it's an umbrella approach to the situation, but don't know if this will have any success.
Anyone else have good tips on how to bring up the subject without completing ruining a friendship?
We have come to a crossroads as there will most likely be "bragging rights" of some kinds up for grabs on this trip, but its hard to feel sure about it when you know one in the group is capable of shaving that many strokes off their scorecard. And it's way too frustrating to have to nanny someone through their whole round when we are playing 2 rounds a day. Has anyone else had any success on lining out some ethics in a person without making them feel alienated? We had discussed making some local rules (lots of forced carries, keeping pace of play, etc) for the round and outlining any broad issues there so that it's an umbrella approach to the situation, but don't know if this will have any success.
Anyone else have good tips on how to bring up the subject without completing ruining a friendship?