Don't worry my friend. Dad's are always less emotionally attached until the baby is born. At least that's what I hear.Parents of more than one... need a little pick me up.
I am having an EXTREMELY hard time being over the top excited about baby #2. My little boy is 2.5 and he is my world. The feeling he gives me is just not able to be put into words. My wife is right at 4 months pregnant with baby #2. I am excited, but for some reason, I get emotional thinking about my son now. I feel like he is going to be jealous, feel left out and feel like he is not getting the attention he deserves when the baby comes into the picture.
I know I will love the second child as much, but I just do not know if the feeling of my first with ever be duplicated.
This probably seems extremely selfish and weird, but it is weighing on me big time.
Did anyone else feel like this? Any words of wisdom?
I was the same way you were with my second but the oldest has embraced her younger sister and is amazing. I know everything will turn out great so don't sweat it.
If you want to, when the time gets closer, sit your son down and explain to him what will happen. You'll be surprised how well they listen and understand.