You're not a bad guy at all buddy, my MIL watches my oldest before and after school, she loves doing it, and when her schedule changes a bit, between my wife, me and my mother we find a way to make it all work. Trust me, grandparents love the time they get to spend with their grandchildren, and when they don't get it, they miss it big time!I love that my family watches Lotte for us during the day and she doesn't go to daycare, but when I forget a discussion about re-arranging days so my MIL can go on a trip and feel like a jackass, it makes me sad and feel like I'm taking advantage of them.
Ugh. I hate being the bad guy.