TripleF
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Long story but we have one regular member of our foursome that has to be one of the slowest player I've ever played with. All of the rest of us are REALLY frustrated by his slow play but we've all said about all we know how to say without a direct confrontation with our friend.
Last time we played two of us timed how long it takes him to actually hit a shot. First, he sets up (very carefully!) waggles a 1/2 back-swing once, twice three times and four times. Then, he make a full speed practice swing. Assuming THAT swing felt good to him he steps up to the ball, goes through the exact same routine and then hits it . . . unless of course the ball falls off his tee. When that happens he starts all over. We figure that takes on average 50 seconds for him to hit a shot! Putts take AT LEAST the same time! The rest of us usually take maybe 15 seconds at worst, Since he normally shoot about an 85, that is about 50 minutes extra per round!!!
We usually finish in about 4 hours when he is with us . . . and when we talk about needing to speed up our play he doesn't see a problem as he feels like 4 hours is about average . . . and maybe he is right. But we NEVER wait for anyone in front of up and there is almost always a several hole gap by the end.
This guy is a good friend and has been for years and years. The rest of us just are at a loss as to how to get him to play faster. When we all first started playing together it would have been fairly easy to sort of exclude him. But now it's too late!
Any suggestions?
Last time we played two of us timed how long it takes him to actually hit a shot. First, he sets up (very carefully!) waggles a 1/2 back-swing once, twice three times and four times. Then, he make a full speed practice swing. Assuming THAT swing felt good to him he steps up to the ball, goes through the exact same routine and then hits it . . . unless of course the ball falls off his tee. When that happens he starts all over. We figure that takes on average 50 seconds for him to hit a shot! Putts take AT LEAST the same time! The rest of us usually take maybe 15 seconds at worst, Since he normally shoot about an 85, that is about 50 minutes extra per round!!!
We usually finish in about 4 hours when he is with us . . . and when we talk about needing to speed up our play he doesn't see a problem as he feels like 4 hours is about average . . . and maybe he is right. But we NEVER wait for anyone in front of up and there is almost always a several hole gap by the end.
This guy is a good friend and has been for years and years. The rest of us just are at a loss as to how to get him to play faster. When we all first started playing together it would have been fairly easy to sort of exclude him. But now it's too late!
Any suggestions?