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Firstly, for this specific discussion I am talking about when pace of play is not problematic at all. Simply put you and your group are not slow and are keeping up very well and even having to wait some here and there. So for sake of this discussion we can leave pace problems out of it because that then I do understand becomes a different scenario.
I got slightly bothered the other day by an individual who would keep insisting my 2 to 3 foot putt (give or take) was good enough without even putting it. I finally had to tell nicely him "but where do you want to go?"
We were not slow and in fact were moving along just swell and even waiting a little. Pace was really good. I am all for picking up when its is an issue and/or when I had a bad hole and am at "esc" anyway. But not in general. I find when you pick up too many shorty's that you lose your touch for making them. Like when for a par or a bird and you really want it to count properly you will be surprised how many you can miss when one becomes too accustomed to picking them up. I like to keep an honest score and I like to keep my shorty putt skill in tact.
I had to explain the above to him how when/if I do this too much I lose the skill to make them and so as long as we are doing fine time wise I like to putt them. We had no argument and actually was a very friendly round and he seemed to understand although I did have to bring it up twice and can tell he wasn't too happy about that part so may be just a tiny little tension there with that part of our round.
Actually as we had the discussion the second time his buddy says "you should see this guy when we play with our regular group and bet each other" "they make you putt from 6inches"
Well, that part is what annoyed me. A sense of entitlement perhaps not intentional but still a sense of it. Only when the individual feels its important does he then feel its ok to putt but when its more casual to him no one else has the right to do what they see fit?
I have experienced many times golfing mostly as a single the false sense of entitlement displayed by "some" others who believe they have the right to dictate what others should and shouldn't do just because the round is a very casual one for them . A number of people who may play organized golf and/or play very competitive golf among friends too often when in (what is considered to them) a more casual round feel as though everyone else who does otherwise is being ridiculous. I've seen it happen many times and not just with putting but with different things too.
Its like certain things are only ok to do only when "they" feel its ok. They don't care to think how other players wish to play their own golf. Things like telling others to pick up that 3 footer, or telling to take a mulli after a badly missed drive that rolled up just past the red tees, or telling one to give themselves a better lie. Things like that are ok to suggest in a friendly fashion when honestly trying to help another with good intent but not ok when implied as a rule with intent to dictate ones round holds no value or meaning. Seems to imply to others that's its not important and to hurry up even though pace is not an issue all because the round means nothing to them. There just sometimes gets to be this sense of entitlement displayed where as no one else has the right. Only they have the right to do what they wish when they see fit. Only then does it all become ok. This doesn't happen very often but I seen it enough times and this (the other day) teed me off a tad and the whole logic is just wrong.
I got slightly bothered the other day by an individual who would keep insisting my 2 to 3 foot putt (give or take) was good enough without even putting it. I finally had to tell nicely him "but where do you want to go?"
We were not slow and in fact were moving along just swell and even waiting a little. Pace was really good. I am all for picking up when its is an issue and/or when I had a bad hole and am at "esc" anyway. But not in general. I find when you pick up too many shorty's that you lose your touch for making them. Like when for a par or a bird and you really want it to count properly you will be surprised how many you can miss when one becomes too accustomed to picking them up. I like to keep an honest score and I like to keep my shorty putt skill in tact.
I had to explain the above to him how when/if I do this too much I lose the skill to make them and so as long as we are doing fine time wise I like to putt them. We had no argument and actually was a very friendly round and he seemed to understand although I did have to bring it up twice and can tell he wasn't too happy about that part so may be just a tiny little tension there with that part of our round.
Actually as we had the discussion the second time his buddy says "you should see this guy when we play with our regular group and bet each other" "they make you putt from 6inches"
Well, that part is what annoyed me. A sense of entitlement perhaps not intentional but still a sense of it. Only when the individual feels its important does he then feel its ok to putt but when its more casual to him no one else has the right to do what they see fit?
I have experienced many times golfing mostly as a single the false sense of entitlement displayed by "some" others who believe they have the right to dictate what others should and shouldn't do just because the round is a very casual one for them . A number of people who may play organized golf and/or play very competitive golf among friends too often when in (what is considered to them) a more casual round feel as though everyone else who does otherwise is being ridiculous. I've seen it happen many times and not just with putting but with different things too.
Its like certain things are only ok to do only when "they" feel its ok. They don't care to think how other players wish to play their own golf. Things like telling others to pick up that 3 footer, or telling to take a mulli after a badly missed drive that rolled up just past the red tees, or telling one to give themselves a better lie. Things like that are ok to suggest in a friendly fashion when honestly trying to help another with good intent but not ok when implied as a rule with intent to dictate ones round holds no value or meaning. Seems to imply to others that's its not important and to hurry up even though pace is not an issue all because the round means nothing to them. There just sometimes gets to be this sense of entitlement displayed where as no one else has the right. Only they have the right to do what they wish when they see fit. Only then does it all become ok. This doesn't happen very often but I seen it enough times and this (the other day) teed me off a tad and the whole logic is just wrong.