Golferbest
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Not sure if this is the proper place to post this however I wanted to post something that happened me today that was eye opening. Simple but eye opening. So I've hinted here and around my house that I ponder fixing my swing. It's not terrible by no means but I have a early wrist hinge that makes the club look off plane for a little bit during the backswing. I've probably spent the last few weeks trying to correct. Drills, slow speed swings..you name it I've been doing it. If feels weird but hey like most I want that flawless swing...
Shoot forward to today out at the course. The gf and Lil man went with me today. Start the first hole with the mindset of making sure I keep what I've been working on. Par 5. Decent drive, decent iron layup. Terrible wedge' another terrible wedge chip 2 putt. Plus 2. Next par 3. Hit an ugly shot short, blades a chip,chip then a putt. So I'm 3 over after two... On the third tee box my gf, looks at me and says what is wrong with you? I calmly say these swing changes are brutal...now my girlfriend is a recreational golfer. Plays to have fun, doesn't practice, doesn't keep score, doesn't know what checkpoints or swing plane or any of those things most of us focus on constantly ....without missing a beat, she says to me " the only person that thinks you need to change your swing is you. So quit trying to be perfect mr PGA and hit the ball... I smile , give a chuckle and say " oooookkkaaayyyy ssoooooorrrry" in my best peanut impression. I proceed to get 2 of my strokes back and end up 1 over through 9, swinging my swing..
I say this not to deter from achieving a good swing. I say this because somewhere down the line I focused more on what the swing looked like apposed to the results I get from mine..
Shoot forward to today out at the course. The gf and Lil man went with me today. Start the first hole with the mindset of making sure I keep what I've been working on. Par 5. Decent drive, decent iron layup. Terrible wedge' another terrible wedge chip 2 putt. Plus 2. Next par 3. Hit an ugly shot short, blades a chip,chip then a putt. So I'm 3 over after two... On the third tee box my gf, looks at me and says what is wrong with you? I calmly say these swing changes are brutal...now my girlfriend is a recreational golfer. Plays to have fun, doesn't practice, doesn't keep score, doesn't know what checkpoints or swing plane or any of those things most of us focus on constantly ....without missing a beat, she says to me " the only person that thinks you need to change your swing is you. So quit trying to be perfect mr PGA and hit the ball... I smile , give a chuckle and say " oooookkkaaayyyy ssoooooorrrry" in my best peanut impression. I proceed to get 2 of my strokes back and end up 1 over through 9, swinging my swing..
I say this not to deter from achieving a good swing. I say this because somewhere down the line I focused more on what the swing looked like apposed to the results I get from mine..