You mentioned "tagging" the club to the watch band. This is not necessary unlike Game Golf. Just the proximity of the tag to the watch enables the watch to identify the club and, in fact, this latest firmware update increases that sensitivity.......tagged the end of the club to the watch band
The only time I got a red exclamation mark was when I holed an exceptionally long putt (over 50') and I had to confirm that due to it appearing on some global leaderboard. You would just do what is suggested and go into that shot in the edit mode to confirm the club and where the shot took place.