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Didn’t know there was such a thing! I better be asking more questions....@WICHITAREJECT just for my own curiosity, is there a reason why you are considering the “co-sign” route as opposed to the “co-purchase”?
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Didn’t know there was such a thing! I better be asking more questions....@WICHITAREJECT just for my own curiosity, is there a reason why you are considering the “co-sign” route as opposed to the “co-purchase”?
For me it’s the best way to go in this situation. When they are in a stronger financial position, or if they pay down the mortgage, then they can refi you out. That way if they can’t make the payments, you can either make them and seek repayment, or force the sale.Didn’t know there was such a thing! I better be asking more questions....
I have daughters and we've already (kind of) gone through this. The conversation basically went like this. "If you can't get approved for an amount to buy the house that you want, then you can't afford the house. Keep shopping becuase I can't afford to take on the debt for a house that already can't afford". Yes it was tough to "break the news" She got over it and the only mortgage hanging over my head is my own. Don't do it.Any of you have daughters by chance?
Yep. You f***ed yourself. Good luck.A little more backstory. Son in-law runs his own tree service. He needs extra room for truck and trailer. So I suggested the property (1 acre) and the higher purchase price and offered the co-sign upfront. So it was my suggestion and not their careless overspending behavior. Does that change any opinions?
If you're rethinking your offer to cosign, you can say "we paid off your student loans for you" and call it square...SIL is also part time auto mechanic so they are relatively debt free. He wheels and deals cars and trucks like most of us do golf clubs. Daughter has no student loans, we paid those off already. Thinking outside the box is not my strong suit......I am a Reject
Getting help on you first house is a HUGE benefit, wouldn’t you agree?I don’t like co signing for anything. Just invites trouble if something happens. I borrowed some money from my mom to buy my first house. A loan is a better route if possible in my opinion.
Seems like you crazy kids did OK for yourselves.....I hope the same for my crazy kids.....I would co-sign for one of my kids when the time came on a loan the size you are considering. I’d rather have them wait to save up a larger down payment and not be stretched to the max loan they are eligible for. Being house poor is not a fun situation but is often exactly what a young couple needs. My wife and I were there briefly the first 2 years of our marriage and learned a lot about budgeting and cutting wasteful spending.
It sure can be. It’s very different based on locations. I bought my first house for $550k in the 1998. Now that 1100 sq ft house would be 1.3 million. Other parts of the country a nice house can be had for a down payment here. It can be difficult to get your foot in the door in some places. So yes some assistance can be a benefit. I’m still not a fan of co signing.Getting help on you first house is a HUGE benefit, wouldn’t you agree?