If you are correct that money is factually not an issue but she objects to golf because of the expense then it isn't money, but something money related. My guess: a desire for security. Now this may not make sense to others but that doesn't matter. IF that's what she's feeling then you need to address that issue (and obviously talking to her about this is the only way to confirm what is really going on). But if my theory is correct, take another look at my suggestion for how to manage your money together in my previous post. It works. One last thing, I always try to remember this when dealing with all things spouse: it is better to be happy than right.