I have belonged to private clubs and I think the memebers take a bit of pride in keeping the course looking good. Probably because they can play more often and they use it to entertain etc. Still people are who they are. There are jerks at the nices private places and jerks at muni's. I enjoy the game a ton and its a treat to play anywhere. I hope I am kind to the people I play with, the staff and to the course. I am not good enough to be arrogant.