marcv68
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Over the past year my family and I have been struggling with probably one of the ugliest diseases known to rear its head, addiction! My younger brother is struggling with an addiction to Percocet. It has been a very long year and has worn my nerves very thin. Over these past 12 months we have dealt with him lying and stealing to get what he needs. A part of me gets angrier than I have ever been but another part of me feels horrible for him because he can't seem to manage his stresses like the rest of us. Even though I'm his older brother I feel like I am raising him as my own. My parents are phenomenal people and have done a marvelous job raising me and my other two brothers. At some point he turned to this to help him cope with the everyday struggles we all face. Last year he went to a rehab facility for 30 days and came out full of ambition and was on the right track. Somewhere he got lost again and has had a series of relapses. It's tough to deal with all of this. I have gone to more than 2 dozen AA meetings with him and try to show him all the love and support I can. He has a sponsor now and hopefully this is the last time we have to go through this. I know he will never "get better" I'm just hoping he is able to manage this disease. Maybe you have notified my absence from the forum and maybe not, just had to get this off my chest and will hopefully be back to participating on the forum more regularly.
Anyone else dealing with this disease? If so, I hope you are able to get a handle on this and at some point get it under control and not let it control you!
Sorry u hafta deal with this Gianna it must be hard, though I don,t know how ur pain is as I was the one who was addicted to percs for a 5 yr. run. I had a serious serious issue with this. Nothing mattered to me one bit except for scoring my next bunch of pills. I ran my family,s bank account dry, No money to pay for oil in the winter time. No money for food,only thing I had money for was dope. Yep thats right real effin selfish of me. I couldnt care less about anything except avoiding the dope sickness which happens and when it does,MY GOSH u wanna kill urself. I cant count how many times I left work sick going home looking for dope. My dealer was a phone call away and a next door neighbor to boot. Then, one Sunday morn. I woke up sick, with no dope and no money to buy I was screwed. So I manned up, told the wife everything, she was beside herself with this, this bitter resent /anger that u could feel u know. So she brought me to the local ER, got me some help. I went to re-hab the next 2 days or so I couldn,t remember cause I was so sick. Long story short,I am proud to say I am clean 1 year:act-up: I go to meetings still to this day once a week, I am also on Suboxen which kills the craving totally, though I no longer want it. I am weening of of it now and should be done by August. He just has to realize he,s at the bottom u know, he,ll come around. I was lucky, my awesome wife stuck by me, now the trust is back as well as my bank account. i wish u the best of God,s blessings if u wanna talk shoot me a PM I would be glad to help.Also you sticking by him is the best thing u can do. It shows him nobody is blowing him off, that someone is there who care,s. You are a great person Gianna keep on keeping on man.
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