I don't know. I'm pretty decent, and I think along those same lines!! I kind of think you stole that from me, actually. 'Cause I've said it on here a bunch.I ascribe to a simple three step process, as I am merely an internet golfer.
1: look good
2: feel good
3: play good
I would believe that an actual player, probably goes in the reverse.
If you look good, you feel good, and then you play good. I probably don't fit the definitions of a 'player' though.