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"Just playin golf pally"
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it sounds to me like you have figured out what about this game is important to and enjoyable for you, which is the social aspect. the golf becomes secondary, and time with your bros is what is most important. keep enjoying that, maintain pace with your group, and it doesn't matter how you play as long as you're having fun!
I totally get where your coming from with the above statement. Its from a good place and is surely meant well. But I wont lie nor be lying when I say that for very many people its the golf that is primary. And all the other stuff.....whether social, or nature, etc....whatever the case is secondary. For very many the level of enjoyment is greatly affected by the golf performance. It may still be enjoyable whatever the performance but just how much enjoyable? Can certainly and often be dictated by performance.
I have seen plenty people enjoy the heck out of a day on the course regardless of golf performance and I seen the other way where the player is miserable and never happy at all. But most people imo fall somewhere in between. Most people play this game and while putting time and money and efforts into it want to be better. That's important to very many and the golf itself is primary. There is no right or wrong way about this but its just the truth imo.
I enjoy the nature and the social part of golf as much as anyone and its important. I have such a better time when Im with good people so it makes a difference and also a better time when playing in my preferred weather conditions. Those things make it more fun and enjoyable for sure but my progress and performance weighs on it. Its why I play first and the other stuff is secondary. I mean if Im with poor company or the weather is not to my liking, or the course conditions and nature is less than desirable I still play, why? Because the golf is primary. If the other things were really primary than I wouldn't play in those scenarios. Nothing wrong there but I think that's the way it is for very many players. The golf itself is whats most enjoyable and when its better so is the enjoyment but when its not the enjoyment takes a bit of a hit.