Wonton
Sphincter says what?
You could just walk away if it's no longer fun. Like me! :act-up:
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It's always fun.
Hell even now I am not playing off rocks or something but that's just because I am not tearing my clubs up.
In your original post you wrote "I got angry inside", which is why I suggested you find other playing partners. You seem to want to observe the Rules of Golf, but your friend does not. That may be a problem which can cause you anger and, or, stress. If it were me I would find someone else to play golf with as it's an easy solution.
My own experience of regular playing partner (s), versus other times paired with guys new to me (either in tournament golf or falling in as a single with others), is that golf is a sensational way to meet new people. There is nothing wrong with having a regular playing partner (s), but being paired with 2 or 3 guys you've never played with can be just as (if not more) fun.
He wants to write down an 80 then let him write down an 80.
But if he boasts about beating you that's when you drop the hammer on him and tell him what he does during a round of golf.
I just recalled another instance where I just laughed it off. We were on the 14th hole this past monday. It's a 593 yard right dogleg par 5 with an elevated tee box. The best tee shot you can take is to go straight over the trees on the right. Big risk/reward, so we all go for it. He hit two that veered well right and I assumed were lost.
I stepped up to the tee and proceeded to hit a wallop of a slice, which I was certain I'd never find in rattlesnake country. So I hit a provisional into the short side of the fairway. I looked for my first ball but never found it. Of course my buddy found his first one! It had a good lie and no real tree trouble either. How lucky.
He gets it to about 75 yards shy of the green, near I was looking in the deep rough to find the location of my approach - when he drove up he asked if I saw his, and I hadn't. I asked what he was hitting, and he replied "Taylormade 5." I couldn't help but let out a laugh. THAT WAS MY FIRST BALL! He had been playing a new box of AVXs all day. He made a big stink about buying them in the pro shop right before the round!
Did you speak up and ask to see that ball (assuming you mark your ball) to see if it was really yours? Anyways, you trying to count all this guy's strokes I bet is hurting your game and enjoyment.
Here is my take - yes, it is annoying and it would irritate me but is it worth fighting or arguing over ? If it is worth the fight then call him on it and run the risk that the relationship will be damaged. If it isn’t worth it then let it go. The 30 years old version of me would have called him on it whereas today (60 next year) I wouldn’t bother.
I don't really care, and I'm certainly not complaining. I will continue to play with him, as we have a good time when we're out.
I picked the ball from the hole for him. It was definitely mine. The thing is, I don't think it's hurting my enjoyment of the game. If anything it's making me feel better to know (in numbers) he's not as good as he says he is - hence sort of feeling like a jerk.
My intent has never been to call him out. As I mentioned in the OP I just feel sort of jerky secretly keeping his real score, as it makes me happy to do it, and wanted to know if it's warranted.