baldguy
Part-Time Sasquatch
Let me start by saying that I'm very new to golf. I played some in my early 20s but not much. In the last 6 months I've really taken to the game, playing at least once per week. My local CC had a black friday membership deal that was too cheap to pass up, so I joined. At least for the next few months of low dues, I'll be saving money by playing here regularly. That said, there is no scarlet letter on my chest that tells other members I paid a low initiation fee and have low dues... I'm just new and not many people know me yet. Most of the people I've met in the past few days have been very friendly and easy to get along with. I generally get along with everyone too.
So, here's what happened. I took my father to the club yesterday to play. He has never seen the course and it was a somewhat slow day. We got a 9:15 tee time by ourselves, but there were groups in front of and behind us. The group behind us was playing faster with 4 than we were with two, so after the 9th we decided to stop in the clubhouse and grab a bite and let them play through. Out to 10 and as we're heading to the tee on our cart, another cart zooms in front of us and parks at the tee. No problem, they can play through too. I'm easy going and we're just there to relax and have fun. One guy hits and the other is taking his time in the cart. I figured he was totaling the front 9. after a couple minutes he got up and hit, then returned to the cart and they didn't move. They didn't say anything to us or even acknowledge that we were waiting behind them. Just sat there in front of us for a couple more minutes. Then here comes another cart with two more guys, they zoomed around us and pulled in behind the first two. They both got out and hit their drives, then the foursome left. One guy in the later cart actually nodded at us, but that's the only time any of them seemed to realize we were there. None of them seemed to be having fun, they were just playing golf... but it felt rude that they knew they were waiting on half of their group and didn't let us play through. We sat there on that tee for at least 7 or 8 minutes before they left the tee, and 15 before they were done and we could play. It was a short par 4 that they took their time playing, with two of them in the water 80 yards to the right of the green (WAY off track, it took some really bad shots to get there). I only mention their bad play b/c it wasn't like they assumed they were just going to get off the hole quicker than we could. I wasn't going to hit into them, trying to be nice. maybe I should have, I dunno.
I didn't know any of them and they didn't know me. but I know if the situation was reversed and I saw a twosome ready to tee when I was still waiting for half of my group to get done in the restroom or whatever... I'd let them go through. So, was this rude of them? Or was this normal behavior for CC players? Perhaps because they didn't know me they correctly assumed I was new and didn't feel obligated to be nice... thoughts? I hate to think that this is normal.
So, here's what happened. I took my father to the club yesterday to play. He has never seen the course and it was a somewhat slow day. We got a 9:15 tee time by ourselves, but there were groups in front of and behind us. The group behind us was playing faster with 4 than we were with two, so after the 9th we decided to stop in the clubhouse and grab a bite and let them play through. Out to 10 and as we're heading to the tee on our cart, another cart zooms in front of us and parks at the tee. No problem, they can play through too. I'm easy going and we're just there to relax and have fun. One guy hits and the other is taking his time in the cart. I figured he was totaling the front 9. after a couple minutes he got up and hit, then returned to the cart and they didn't move. They didn't say anything to us or even acknowledge that we were waiting behind them. Just sat there in front of us for a couple more minutes. Then here comes another cart with two more guys, they zoomed around us and pulled in behind the first two. They both got out and hit their drives, then the foursome left. One guy in the later cart actually nodded at us, but that's the only time any of them seemed to realize we were there. None of them seemed to be having fun, they were just playing golf... but it felt rude that they knew they were waiting on half of their group and didn't let us play through. We sat there on that tee for at least 7 or 8 minutes before they left the tee, and 15 before they were done and we could play. It was a short par 4 that they took their time playing, with two of them in the water 80 yards to the right of the green (WAY off track, it took some really bad shots to get there). I only mention their bad play b/c it wasn't like they assumed they were just going to get off the hole quicker than we could. I wasn't going to hit into them, trying to be nice. maybe I should have, I dunno.
I didn't know any of them and they didn't know me. but I know if the situation was reversed and I saw a twosome ready to tee when I was still waiting for half of my group to get done in the restroom or whatever... I'd let them go through. So, was this rude of them? Or was this normal behavior for CC players? Perhaps because they didn't know me they correctly assumed I was new and didn't feel obligated to be nice... thoughts? I hate to think that this is normal.