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I feel bad that I didn't see this post until just now. I'll be totally honest with you when I say that I've made some of the greatest strides in my recovery/handling of my issues just by talking to a professional. Hell, just talking to someone I trust has helped a ton. We men, we have this idea that we shouldn't talk about things that might be bothering us because it "shows weakness". I say **** that theory! It's 2023, and everyone deserves to be happy!Feel bad that I have not noticed this thread until now. Some really great advice, and individual stories, in here from THPers. I have always been one to hold my emotions really close to the vest, much to the dismay of my wife, but have learned to open up to her and my daughters in the past couple of years and getting stuff off my chest rather than internalizing pretty much everything has really helped my mental well being. It was always a me problem for not opening up and certainly a case of them not wanting to listen.
My mental health is essentially a roller coaster down to one track and no safety harness. I’ve learned to manage it hard the last few years with focus. One thing that’s an issue is if I were to go to a psych and have some type of prescription it could lead to work issues. We take care of people just not ourselves
I truly have no idea how medical professionals such as yourself can do what you do say in and day out. The things you have to deal with, the people etc it’s remarkable. Add on top of it, the fact that you’re unable to look out for numero uno just doesn’t seem right.My mental health is essentially a roller coaster down to one track and no safety harness. I’ve learned to manage it hard the last few years with focus. One thing that’s an issue is if I were to go to a psych and have some type of prescription it could lead to work issues. We take care of people just not ourselves
It’s simple. I ain’t wired right. I was. Time changed it.I truly have no idea how medical professionals such as yourself can do what you do say in and day out. The things you have to deal with, the people etc it’s remarkable. Add on top of it, the fact that you’re unable to look out for numero uno just doesn’t seem right.
A combination of stress, some new medications that are throwing me for a loop on this sinus journey thing, a weird weight gain over the past month... all leaving me feeling super weird right now.
Went through last night after the wife went to bed, and tore apart my tool room and reorganized everything.
Got finished, and hated it immediately. Tore it all apart this morning. Slowly trying to put it all back together again.
Stuff everywhere in the house. Kids junk, wife's junk, my junk.... trying to sell stuff and get rid of clutter. Anxiety over all the mess is driving me nuts.
Anxiety over the other stuff is still there. Clutter anxiety gone down.Any relief in the last couple days? clutter is major anxiety causing. People hate organizing but love and find relief in temhe result .. that's why stuff like journaling helps, it gets the clutter out of the mind
Ok well *I* feel bad about not seeing *this* post until now.I feel bad that I didn't see this post until just now. I'll be totally honest with you when I say that I've made some of the greatest strides in my recovery/handling of my issues just by talking to a professional. Hell, just talking to someone I trust has helped a ton. We men, we have this idea that we shouldn't talk about things that might be bothering us because it "shows weakness". I say **** that theory! It's 2023, and everyone deserves to be happy!
Totally get what you’re saying. I’d recommend it and trying to be patient with it once you feel ready!It's been a very tough year health wise. 2 surgeries and multiple hospital stays. I've never been a person that even thought about anxiety or depression but now it's on my mind a little too much. It got to a point where I didn't want to leave the house, and as soon as I did I would get nauseous and sometimes dizzy. I tried to just grin and bare it but it was becoming too much. Thankfully my sister has been having similar issues and she has helped me a ton. Her and my wife, who is just the best person there is.
I'm still thinking of getting professional help but thinking of doing that makes me even more anxious...yeah I know makes no sense.
So sorry for your lossesBeen a really stressful couple of months for me. Started an accelerated program for my CFP designation which is easily like a second job. We lost my wife's aunt in December at age 62. Then my uncle, who was more like a big brother to me, at age 51, about a month ago. And while I'm usually pretty stress free, or at least I deal with it fairly easily normally... Things have been building lately.
Today I found this pretty insightful article and study about micro stressors, which really resonates with me. I thought it might be a nice read for some folks. Definitely touches on a lot of areas and topics I found helpful. I'm going to give it another read in a couple of days. Definitely curious to know what you think of you give it a read.
The Hidden Toll of Microstress
Microstresses are small moments of stress that seem manageable on their own — think a vague, worrying text from your teen flashing on your phone while you’re in a meeting, the appearance of a colleague who always wants to vent to you, or having to tell your team that the project you’ve all been...hbr.org
Damn. This thread hit hard today. I had missed it somehow earlier, but I'm glad I stumbled upon it now. Reading all of your posts and honest feelings brings my own to the forefront and stopped me to consider, how am I doing today. The truth is, not that great. And to say that takes a lot of effort for me, as I'm one of those people, who doesn't like admitting they aren't on top of things. I'm very grateful to all of you, who shared here, it helps relate and find perspective.Been a really stressful couple of months for me. Started an accelerated program for my CFP designation which is easily like a second job. We lost my wife's aunt in December at age 62. Then my uncle, who was more like a big brother to me, at age 51, about a month ago. And while I'm usually pretty stress free, or at least I deal with it fairly easily normally... Things have been building lately.
Today I found this pretty insightful article and study about micro stressors, which really resonates with me. I thought it might be a nice read for some folks. Definitely touches on a lot of areas and topics I found helpful. I'm going to give it another read in a couple of days. Definitely curious to know what you think of you give it a read.
The Hidden Toll of Microstress
Microstresses are small moments of stress that seem manageable on their own — think a vague, worrying text from your teen flashing on your phone while you’re in a meeting, the appearance of a colleague who always wants to vent to you, or having to tell your team that the project you’ve all been...hbr.org