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lauzgolfer said:
Thanks Sposey!

Look everyone, all I really wanted to know is how these `model`caddies stack up against `traditional`male caddies. In my light research, caddies aren`t exactly cheap overall (let`s call them a luxury; no different than dropping $400 for a rangefinder). Yes, these services charge a premium for a model to be your caddie. All I`m trying to figure out is whether it`s worth the premium.

Guess it`s good that it started a discussion, but sucks that some people`s post, whether intentional or not, seem rather judgey and holier than though. But as many of those posters have said, that`s just my opinion of what you`ve stated. To each their own, right?!
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In one sense your correct in that the opinionated posts dont answer your original question. But to be fair you have (and certainly now) opened the door by wondering if paying a premium for a pretty model caddie vs a basic usual one is worth it. I mean that in itself is asking people opinions about paying for a pretty model. Not just a caddie but a model caddie. Therefore people would have justification in offering what they think about that. Some of us wouldnt pay for it , and dont think its worth it, and then will give their reasons why. So in that sense they indeed are actually answering what it is your wondering about.

The bottom line? if you feel paying a premium to have a pretty model as a caddie is something you desire to do then just go and do it.

On another note do you really think this is about caddies per say? Its really not imo because this whole thing is much more about the business gimmick of a model caddie than it is about just any caddie. Like any gimmick business or anything we pay for....are they worth it? Nothing is ever worth it except to the person that wants to pay for it. I mean this isnt about whether or not having a caddie is worth it. Its baout whether or not paying for a pretty novelty caddie is worth it. How can that ever really be worth it as for a serious question except only to the person who desires to pay for it.

I need a car, i want a nicer car, I want a corvette. Of those 3 things the only one worth it is the first. The next two are not worth it but can only be worth it to the individual who desires them.
 
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Fun thread, glad I read it.

To the question asked, no I haven't used these services but if they're anything like caddies that I've used it's money well spent. Sorry I'm not of more help but I do appreciate the thread.
 
rollin said:
In one sense your correct in that the opinionated posts dont answer your original question. But to be fair you have (and certainly now) opened the door by wondering if paying a premium for a pretty model caddie vs a basic usual one is worth it. I mean that in itself is asking people opinions about paying for a pretty model. Not just a caddie but a model caddie. Therefore people would have justification in offering what they think about that. Some of us wouldnt pay for it , and dont think its worth it, and then will give their reasons why. So in that sense they indeed are actually answering what it is your wondering about.

The bottom line? if you feel paying a premium to have a pretty model as a caddie is something you desire to do then just go and do it.

On another note do you really think this is about caddies per say? Its really not imo because this whole thing is much more about the business gimmick of a model caddie than it is about just any caddie. Like any gimmick business or anything we pay for....are they worth it? Nothing is ever worth it except to the person that wants to pay for it. I mean this isnt about whether or not having a caddie is worth it. Its baout whether or not paying for a pretty novelty caddie is worth it. How can that ever really be worth it as for a serious question except only to the person who desires to pay for it.

I need a car, i want a nicer car, I want a corvette. Of those 3 things the only one worth it is the first. The next two are not worth it but can only be worth it to the individual who desires them.
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Fair point and I appreciate your perspective on that.

As for the whole worth it thing, I guess I'll expand. What I don't want is just a pretty face to wipe off my clubs or to complete simple tasks. Because I have used a "traditional" caddie before, I was hoping that someone (Sposey in this case) could testify to whether or not these models are in fact caddies. The last thing I want is to drop a ton of money (at a premium over a traditional caddie) to just get, as some posters put it, a hot girl to follow me around. However, if the model caddie is in fact a legit caddie, then I'd be more inclined to pay that premium.

Thanks again to everyone that chimed in. For the record, I definitely don't mind the opinions. It actually still affects my decision because while it would be limited to my group, there are still other golfers out there. I was raised in a time, like most of you folks, to be considerate of others.

That actually makes me want to ask another question, how would you folks feel/think if you saw this going on in the group in front or behind you?
 
Or even better, what if a twosome of guys were to be paired up with your twosome and they had a model caddie with them?
 
lauzgolfer said:
Or even better, what if a twosome of guys were to be paired up with your twosome and they had a model caddie with them?
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As long as they can play on pace, I guess I wouldn't care
 
I’ve thought about getting 1 on a guys weekend. If you get 1 let us know how it goes.
 
Scrap Iron said:
I’ve thought about getting 1 on a guys weekend. If you get 1 let us know how it goes.
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Will do! I'm going to be in Palm Springs (Indio) at the end of January and if I do it, it'll be then. Was supposed to go to Vegas last month, but that fell through. I'll likely start another thread asking for advice on which courses I should consider playing while down there.
 
greggdrews said:
So yes you pay for an attractive women to do the things you don’t want to and she does it with a smile. Most guys would say thats a dream wife.
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I can see that correlation if you consider your wife an employee/contractor.
 
I'd liken it to using a service like this.... http://snugglebuddies.com/

Do I see the point? No.

Would I give someone a hard time if they wanted to spend their own money on it? No.

Would I tell someone that I think it's stupid if they asked my opinion? You bet your ass, I would.
 
lauzgolfer said:
Fair point and I appreciate your perspective on that.

As for the whole worth it thing, I guess I'll expand. What I don't want is just a pretty face to wipe off my clubs or to complete simple tasks. Because I have used a "traditional" caddie before, I was hoping that someone (Sposey in this case) could testify to whether or not these models are in fact caddies. The last thing I want is to drop a ton of money (at a premium over a traditional caddie) to just get, as some posters put it, a hot girl to follow me around. However, if the model caddie is in fact a legit caddie, then I'd be more inclined to pay that premium.

Thanks again to everyone that chimed in. For the record, I definitely don't mind the opinions. It actually still affects my decision because while it would be limited to my group, there are still other golfers out there. I was raised in a time, like most of you folks, to be considerate of others.

That actually makes me want to ask another question, how would you folks feel/think if you saw this going on in the group in front or behind you?
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and so....you would pay the extra premium for a hottie being with you so long as she is also a legitimate caddie. You want both and i can understand that. Not for me but you would like that so be it. I would tend to assume (and i could be wrong) most these girls are models first and caddies second. Even if some are good at caddying imo it would still be a secondary thing vs being a model. After all thats the business gimmick they are in and is why the premium is paid. Its imo a novelty thing more than it is a more serious caddie thing. Thats what Id assume.

A group in front or even mixed in with me? As much as im not a fan for the reasons I gave, I would just play my golf and do my thing and converse as normal and play as normal. But there is one thing that could change that and its not by my doing. You see... I find too many men get a bit stupid when around a pretty girl and they often tend to not act as they normally would. Whether they act macho, or become gaga like a little kid, it affects the things they might normally say and how they might normally act and what they might normally do. In that sense only Im not saying it definitely would but it could affect my day of golf in a negative way. I mean Ive actually seen it happen with nothing more than a pretty cart girl that they ight see for a few minutes just a couple/few times a round so I can certainly imagine that same stupidity being around and aong side me for the entire round. In that case only it would probably annoy me. Other than that and probably most times id be just fine doing my thing.
 
skinsscalper said:
No offense to those that use/used the service (and I mean that sincerely. Spend your money how you want) but, I pray that I'm never that desperate for "fun" or attention.
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Usually when you say "No offense" it's usually meant to be offensive. I'm not desperate for attention and I'm not even sayin I would use these services but what's wrong with it?
What people do with thier money isn't my concern
I do love how judgemental some people are.

You sound like a ball of fun!

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Still with the moral debate?
 
lauzgolfer said:
I wasn't quite sure where to start this thread so I figured I'd try posting here first to see if I get any reply.

For those unfamiliar with what I am asking about, the above are just some of the companies that you would come across when searching for hiring a model as your caddie when golfing down in Las Vegas and certain parts of California. Essentially it's a model that is trained to complete all caddie tasks (except for carrying your bag, they ride with you). The cost is pretty up there, sometimes double the cost of a round (depending on where you're playing). Have not been able to find reviews of using these services so I thought I'd see here if anyone has splurged on this seemingly fun way to enhance a round of golf....or blow up your scores from the distraction! LOL.

Thanks in advance!

For reference, in case anyone wants to check it out:

www.vipgolfservices.com
www.bunkermates.com
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Quoting the original question so some can descend from up on the soapbox
 
PatsFan said:
Usually when you say "No offense" it's usually meant to be offensive. I'm not desperate for attention and I'm not even sayin I would use these services but what's wrong with it?
What people do with thier money isn't my concern
I do love how judgemental some people are.

You sound like a ball of fun!

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I don't remember saying that there was anything wrong with it. People can spend their money how they choose. In the end, when you use a service like this, you're basically paying for someone to be your companion. Fun? Desperate? Does it really matter? I don't judge anyone based on how they choose to disperse their income (so you can save the judgemental sermon). I, personally, wouldn't pay for someone's companionship (in any capacity). Call me kooky, I guess (or "A ball of fun").
 
OGputtnfool said:
Who mentioned morals?
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Not I.

I thought it was a good question and I didn't even know these kind of company's existed.



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PatsFan said:
Not I.

I thought it was a good question and I didn't even know these kind of company's existed.



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Yeah, I know. I just find it odd that we've had two posts asking about a "moral debate", but other than those two (and my subsequent inquiries as to who mentioned morals... and this one) there are no references to morals in this thread.
 
I've never used a service like that, but if they can keep a round fun and upbeat and provide a professional service why would I have a problem with it?

I prefer to get my wife to caddy for me so at least I can sleep with the eye candy afterwards lol.
 
mikedean441 said:
Quoting the original question so some can descend from up on the soapbox
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With due respect I dont hink people are on such a sopabox anymore than one implying they should come down from thiers. Respectfully (and I mean that not to be insulting) that can be considered a soapbox too if you think about it.

The subject in the original post as well further post by the OP is asking about such services, offering the websites to check out, implies about paying extra for a sexy model, mentions distraction, etc,etc… Those websites market their gimmick of sexy model caddies as a highlight more than the golf. Just look at the pictures as well as it being stated the "models" are trained to be caddies. that's a sexy model first golf second thing imo. This is what the whole subject is about. Its about paying for a sexy model to caddie for you. Opinions about this sexy model gimmick business are going to be offered. Its just part of the territory and is whats asked about so those opinions imo were perfectly fine to offer. Some people feel stronger than others about it. So be it. The Op can then request that anyone who doesn't like it or is against it need not respond and request for only those who have favorable opinions respond. But then his question becomes a moot one anyway, doesn't it. I just don't feel that a serious golf question of it being worth it fits a real answer in a golf sense. Its a novelty thing.

In the end (like most things) its only worth it if you want to pay for it. Imo the highlight of such a service is the sexy model, not really at all the golf. This imo is the same as a sexy escort to accompany one to a function. or hiring a table dancer. If both those without sexual relations involved is imo the same exact thing. I cannot take it seriously as for a golf caddie. Its far more about the sexy model then it ever is about a caddie regardless how good some of them may have become at it. One wants to pay for that sexy caddie, be my guest no one is going to stop you nor should they. Can that really be seriously asked of as for opinions of if its worthy? The only answer to that is to say that if having a sexy model as a caddie is something you find desirable to do then just do it.

I mean are these agencies really supplying you a serious caddie? or a model first caddie? I mean c'mon....its a gimmick to make money. sexy outfits, short skirts/pants, sexy smiles and poses so the guy can get gaga and his jollies for whatever floats his boat. I mean c'mon really? that's what its about. Its all about the sexy model even if some may be good at caddying. It can only be worthy if having a sexy caddie is desired by that person. If the person wants a sexy caddie but wants a good one , how would they know which one they get will be good? Id bet a smaller percentage of these sexy caddies are that good at truly caddying and id also bet there is a huge turnover as well. I mean Im sure one would get the sexy (id hope, as that's what they'd pay for) but will they get the really "good caddie" as well? Who knows and id assume probably not or at best it would be pot luck. If someone wants to do it then just go for it why care what anyone thinks is worth it cause I just don't see an answer that would seriously golfwise say its worth it except to a person who desires it. And thats fine for them if its what they chose to do. have your fun with it. Youll oinly imo really find out of its worth it after you do it.
 
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rollin said:
With due respect I dont hink people are on such a sopabox anymore than one implying they should come down from thiers. Respectfully (and I mean that not to be insulting) that can be considered a soapbox too if you think about it.

The subject in the original post as well further post by the OP is asking about such services, offering the websites to check out, implies about paying extra for a sexy model, mentions distraction, etc,etc… Those websites market their gimmick of sexy model caddies as a highlight more than the golf. Just look at the pictures as well as it being stated the "models" are trained to be caddies. that's a sexy model first golf second thing imo. This is what the whole subject is about. Its about paying for a sexy model to caddie for you. Opinions about this sexy model gimmick business are going to be offered. Its just part of the territory and is whats asked about so those opinions imo were perfectly fine to offer. Some people feel stronger than others about it. So be it. The Op can then request that anyone who doesn't like it or is against it need not respond and request for only those who have favorable opinions respond. But then his question becomes a moot one anyway, doesn't it. I just don't feel that a serious golf question of it being worth it fits a real answer in a golf sense. Its a novelty thing.

In the end (like most things) its only worth it if you want to pay for it. Imo the highlight of such a service is the sexy model, not really at all the golf. This imo is the same as a sexy escort to accompany one to a function. or hiring a table dancer. If both those without sexual relations involved is imo the same exact thing. I cannot take it seriously as for a golf caddie. Its far more about the sexy model then it ever is about a caddie regardless how good some of them may have become at it. One wants to pay for that sexy caddie, be my guest no one is going to stop you nor should they. Can that really be seriously asked of as for opinions of if its worthy? The only answer to that is to say that if having a sexy model as a caddie is something you find desirable to do then just do it.

I mean are these agencies really supplying you a serious caddie? or a model first caddie? I mean c'mon....its a gimmick to make money. sexy outfits, short skirts/pants, sexy smiles and poses so the guy can get gaga and his jollies for whatever floats his boat. I mean c'mon really? that's what its about. Its all about the sexy model even if some may be good at caddying. It can only be worthy if having a sexy caddie is desired by that person. If the person wants a sexy caddie but wants a good one , how would they know which one they get will be good? Id bet a smaller percentage of these sexy caddies are that good at truly caddying and id also bet there is a huge turnover as well. I mean Im sure one would get the sexy (id hope, as that's what they'd pay for) but will they get the really "good caddie" as well? Who knows and id assume probably not or at best it would be pot luck. If someone wants to do it then just go for it why care what anyone thinks is worth it cause I just don't see an answer that would seriously golfwise say its worth it except to a person who desires it. And thats fine for them if its what they chose to do. have your fun with it. Youll oinly imo really find out of its worth it after you do it.
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You have zero experience of the service so how can you give any opinion on it. Nuff said!!!


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Not for me as I’m cheap. But, I wouldn’t mind being in the group behind. Get the eye candy without the bill.
 
rollin said:
With due respect I dont hink people are on such a sopabox anymore than one implying they should come down from thiers. Respectfully (and I mean that not to be insulting) that can be considered a soapbox too if you think about it.

The subject in the original post as well further post by the OP is asking about such services, offering the websites to check out, implies about paying extra for a sexy model, mentions distraction, etc,etc… Those websites market their gimmick of sexy model caddies as a highlight more than the golf. Just look at the pictures as well as it being stated the "models" are trained to be caddies. that's a sexy model first golf second thing imo. This is what the whole subject is about. Its about paying for a sexy model to caddie for you. Opinions about this sexy model gimmick business are going to be offered. Its just part of the territory and is whats asked about so those opinions imo were perfectly fine to offer. Some people feel stronger than others about it. So be it. The Op can then request that anyone who doesn't like it or is against it need not respond and request for only those who have favorable opinions respond. But then his question becomes a moot one anyway, doesn't it. I just don't feel that a serious golf question of it being worth it fits a real answer in a golf sense. Its a novelty thing.

In the end (like most things) its only worth it if you want to pay for it. Imo the highlight of such a service is the sexy model, not really at all the golf. This imo is the same as a sexy escort to accompany one to a function. or hiring a table dancer. If both those without sexual relations involved is imo the same exact thing. I cannot take it seriously as for a golf caddie. Its far more about the sexy model then it ever is about a caddie regardless how good some of them may have become at it. One wants to pay for that sexy caddie, be my guest no one is going to stop you nor should they. Can that really be seriously asked of as for opinions of if its worthy? The only answer to that is to say that if having a sexy model as a caddie is something you find desirable to do then just do it.

I mean are these agencies really supplying you a serious caddie? or a model first caddie? I mean c'mon....its a gimmick to make money. sexy outfits, short skirts/pants, sexy smiles and poses so the guy can get gaga and his jollies for whatever floats his boat. I mean c'mon really? that's what its about. Its all about the sexy model even if some may be good at caddying. It can only be worthy if having a sexy caddie is desired by that person. If the person wants a sexy caddie but wants a good one , how would they know which one they get will be good? Id bet a smaller percentage of these sexy caddies are that good at truly caddying and id also bet there is a huge turnover as well. I mean Im sure one would get the sexy (id hope, as that's what they'd pay for) but will they get the really "good caddie" as well? Who knows and id assume probably not or at best it would be pot luck. If someone wants to do it then just go for it why care what anyone thinks is worth it cause I just don't see an answer that would seriously golfwise say its worth it except to a person who desires it. And thats fine for them if its what they chose to do. have your fun with it. Youll oinly imo really find out of its worth it after you do it.
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Your last paragraph is exactly what my concern is. What I want is both a good caddie in the form of a hot girl. Definitely wouldn`t be for a regular thing, special occasions, such as a bachelor party or birthday round. Wish I had the money to consider doing it on the regular (not cause of the whole hot girl thing, just want to have that much disposable income!). I would consider myself a serious golfer in the sense of my game, more so when I was a bit younger and a club member. Now after buying a house, getting married and having a child, it`s rare that I`ll get out. So while I have no problem splurging, I don`t want to walk away from the experience feeling like it was a waste of paying that premium, no matter the amount of said premium.

I found a `review`of sorts, more like an advert for it on a golf blog. He says it`s legit, but I really wasn`t sure. He could`ve been comped the service due to his blog or whatnot. That`s why I decided to ask the community.

https://mygolfspy.com/parmates-experience-las-vegas/

@sposey - Thanks again for your input, seems like you're one of the few in the community that has actually tried the service.
 
sposey013168 said:
You have zero experience of the service so how can you give any opinion on it. Nuff said!!!


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Because I can still offer opinion of what it is that I feel about it based on how its marketed on such websites and what I think it really is about and if I think its worthy. Anyone can say what they think or know. I didn't say it wasn't possible to get a really good caddie out of it. But lets be honest, good caddie or not this is about whether or not one should pay extra money to have a sexy model as a caddie. And anyone can comment on that. All Ive ever truly said for certain in my posts is that it can only be worth it to those who desire the novelty gimmick of having a sexy hottie woman as a caddie. And that part is a fact regardless if I experienced it or not.
 
rollin said:
Because I can still offer opinion of what it is that I feel about it based on how its marketed on such websites and what I think it really is about and if I think its worthy. Anyone can say what they think or know. I didn't say it wasn't possible to get a really good caddie out of it. But lets be honest, good caddie or not this is about whether or not one should pay extra money to have a sexy model as a caddie. And anyone can comment on that. All Ive ever truly said for certain in my posts is that it can only be worth it to those who desire the novelty gimmick of having a sexy hottie woman as a caddie. And that part is a fact regardless if I experienced it or not.
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The OP asked if anyone had any experience with the service, not what your assumption of the service is. Your long posts honestly brought nothing to what the OP was posting for


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