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This is a picture of my girl Penelope. She was laid to rest on Wednesday, July 8th 2015. Penelope was a rescue from the local shelter and I fostered her back to health prior to the decline that ultimately led to the decision that we had to make to let her rest.
Penelope was found by someone having a seizure on their porch. This person took her to the emergency vet and left her there to be delivered to the animal shelter. While she was out before being found she suffered a tick bite that would be found later. The original owner / family let her go for reasons unknown... I took her in as a foster and she was anemic, lethargic, under weight and terrified. Between my discovery of the tick bite and daily care of that wound, proper nutrition and seizure medicine Penelope was starting to turn around.
Since Penelope was a foster the animal shelter adopted her out to a family that ultimately would bring her back to me because they "didn't have time for her". This poor girl just needed a family to love her and give her a chance to be comfortable. So I officially adopted her the next day, right before thanksgiving. She continued to do well until right around the new year the seizures came on hard. We tried various combinations of medications, every test, DNA testing and food adjustments with lots of love. Really I adjusted my schedule at work to allow myself to finish my days at home so I could take care of her. Starting about a month ago the medications stopped controlling her seizures and they became increasingly violent. She was highly at risk of secondary life threatening injury. If I was home during an episode she could break a leg, neck, or as severe as breaking bones in her jaw. This would have left her to suffer until I got home from work. This risk along with the quality of life loss with any additional medication made the decision to euthanize the best decision for her.
Her vet is really an amazing guy and co-owner of Zoot Animal Hospital, Dr. Jensen Young. With his busy schedule he dedicated so much time and effort into trying to get Penelope back to full health. He was equally devastated when we had to put her down to end the suffering.
On Tuesday I took my other dog to the boarding place so she wouldn't be here until I could clean the carpet (seizures leave quite a mess) and try to dampen the noticeable loss to Lola. Also Lola would be exhausted from her time there as she gets to swim, run, play and so much time with other dogs.
On Wednesday, I took the day off and spent the day giving Penelope all of my attention and trying to do her favorite things. We walked, she got can food, belly rubs, treats, more petting and really everything I could think of that she liked.
The vet allowed me to call ahead and handle payment / paperwork for the services which was huge because I couldn't read anything when I walked out. I was already starting to cry uncontrollably. I got her leash and we headed towards the car. This is where things felt deeper and if you don't believe it that's fine you can say it was all in my head.
Penelope walked out to the car and laid down as calm as she ever has. Obviously she didn't know where we were going but she knew she was going to feel better. There was no fear in her eyes, just something I can't even describe. She was ready and relieved I think. When the doctor did the first injection I was petting her as I have when she was having a seizure but this time she relaxed and looked at me almost like she was saying thank you. It just felt like we lifted so much pain and anxiety off of her spirit. Then the remaining two injections ended her life. All I could do at this point was sob. I spent a few minutes with her after to just talk to her and hope she is happier in the afterlife.
This whole situation has deeply effected me emotionally. This hurt more than my divorce, more than losing someone in my life it was actually unbelievable and surprising how much it hurts. The only thing that will help is time.
I write this because I needed to tell the story to someone and also to say if anyone has a dog suffering with epilepsy, please reach out.
There are some ways to allow your dog to live a wonderful life with epilepsy. My dog did not respond to any of the medication we tried.
I also write this to say, please don't dump your dog on the shelter or even worse on the streets. Dogs are the most selfless animal in nature. All they strive to do is please you... Please don't just dump that.
As a side note to add to my July... I lost a friend at work who left the company (2 total) surprisingly. That was a gut punch to say the least. July hasn't been my month.
Tomorrow I'll hit the golf course and that will bring some recoup time.
I'll say I'm not emotional and I am always the supporter. This is the first time I really need support so I'll take whatever words anyone can offer.
Thank you for reading, hug your dog today
-JBJ
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This is a picture of my girl Penelope. She was laid to rest on Wednesday, July 8th 2015. Penelope was a rescue from the local shelter and I fostered her back to health prior to the decline that ultimately led to the decision that we had to make to let her rest.
Penelope was found by someone having a seizure on their porch. This person took her to the emergency vet and left her there to be delivered to the animal shelter. While she was out before being found she suffered a tick bite that would be found later. The original owner / family let her go for reasons unknown... I took her in as a foster and she was anemic, lethargic, under weight and terrified. Between my discovery of the tick bite and daily care of that wound, proper nutrition and seizure medicine Penelope was starting to turn around.
Since Penelope was a foster the animal shelter adopted her out to a family that ultimately would bring her back to me because they "didn't have time for her". This poor girl just needed a family to love her and give her a chance to be comfortable. So I officially adopted her the next day, right before thanksgiving. She continued to do well until right around the new year the seizures came on hard. We tried various combinations of medications, every test, DNA testing and food adjustments with lots of love. Really I adjusted my schedule at work to allow myself to finish my days at home so I could take care of her. Starting about a month ago the medications stopped controlling her seizures and they became increasingly violent. She was highly at risk of secondary life threatening injury. If I was home during an episode she could break a leg, neck, or as severe as breaking bones in her jaw. This would have left her to suffer until I got home from work. This risk along with the quality of life loss with any additional medication made the decision to euthanize the best decision for her.
Her vet is really an amazing guy and co-owner of Zoot Animal Hospital, Dr. Jensen Young. With his busy schedule he dedicated so much time and effort into trying to get Penelope back to full health. He was equally devastated when we had to put her down to end the suffering.
On Tuesday I took my other dog to the boarding place so she wouldn't be here until I could clean the carpet (seizures leave quite a mess) and try to dampen the noticeable loss to Lola. Also Lola would be exhausted from her time there as she gets to swim, run, play and so much time with other dogs.
On Wednesday, I took the day off and spent the day giving Penelope all of my attention and trying to do her favorite things. We walked, she got can food, belly rubs, treats, more petting and really everything I could think of that she liked.
The vet allowed me to call ahead and handle payment / paperwork for the services which was huge because I couldn't read anything when I walked out. I was already starting to cry uncontrollably. I got her leash and we headed towards the car. This is where things felt deeper and if you don't believe it that's fine you can say it was all in my head.
Penelope walked out to the car and laid down as calm as she ever has. Obviously she didn't know where we were going but she knew she was going to feel better. There was no fear in her eyes, just something I can't even describe. She was ready and relieved I think. When the doctor did the first injection I was petting her as I have when she was having a seizure but this time she relaxed and looked at me almost like she was saying thank you. It just felt like we lifted so much pain and anxiety off of her spirit. Then the remaining two injections ended her life. All I could do at this point was sob. I spent a few minutes with her after to just talk to her and hope she is happier in the afterlife.
This whole situation has deeply effected me emotionally. This hurt more than my divorce, more than losing someone in my life it was actually unbelievable and surprising how much it hurts. The only thing that will help is time.
I write this because I needed to tell the story to someone and also to say if anyone has a dog suffering with epilepsy, please reach out.
There are some ways to allow your dog to live a wonderful life with epilepsy. My dog did not respond to any of the medication we tried.
I also write this to say, please don't dump your dog on the shelter or even worse on the streets. Dogs are the most selfless animal in nature. All they strive to do is please you... Please don't just dump that.
As a side note to add to my July... I lost a friend at work who left the company (2 total) surprisingly. That was a gut punch to say the least. July hasn't been my month.
Tomorrow I'll hit the golf course and that will bring some recoup time.
I'll say I'm not emotional and I am always the supporter. This is the first time I really need support so I'll take whatever words anyone can offer.
Thank you for reading, hug your dog today
-JBJ
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