MDGolfHacker
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I'm sure many of us have ridden in a cart with somebody who was not playing well and has gotten angry. I know I have and I have also been the person who was angry/frustrated. There is no right or wrong answer, I thought it might be interesting to see others responses.
Scenario...
Your 4 holes into a 9 hole match. Your partner is playing some awful golf, but you still have time to turn it around, however he has become visibly angry with himself. What do you do?
A. Keep trying to talk to him, tell him its no big deal.
B. Start drinking. Heavily.
C. Bear down and focus even more on what your doing you can't control what he does.
D. Get pissed off yourself.
E. Let him simmer and hope he turns it around.
F. Tell him he sucks and you can't wait to get a new partner at the turn.
G. Make him laugh and hope he snaps out of it, you can still turn the match around.
H. Ignore him completely and only talk with the other team.
Great real world scenario! For me personally, I would choose option G, C and A. I'm a laid back kind of guy and always joking around so I tend to use humor to diffuse tense and difficult situations if I believe it would help. If talking my partner down would work, I would do this as well (just would depend on the type of person you are teamed with). Sometimes though, you need to carry the team a little so hunkering down and focusing even harder may be the only way to go. It may even refocus your partner and light a fire under him as well!