sacul1573
What's a GIR?
So basically - the guests are paying for the wedding. The $150 covers your meal. I think that your wife's brother or the bride's family should pick up that expense.
Yes, the guests are paying for the wedding. I dont even want to know if my brother-in-law is getting a discount or comp on his "honeymoon" package for having the wedding there (I'm sure he is), that would just push me over the edge!!!
sacul, do we have the same brother? sounds like something mine would pull (and i know that he'll see this). dude, that's kind of rough, you kind of have to be there i'm sure. if it's any consolation, i'd rather you make the thp outing as well.
And yeah, I think if we go to this, it kills any chance of doing the outing. But kicker is, his parents have already said they're not going, and his other sister is on the edge about it as well (this might send her off). So I dont know if we have to be there or not.
I'm leaving it up to the wife. We have the money, but it'll hurt. It's her family, it's her decision, and I'll support her wholeheartedly in whatever she decides.