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I knew it was your daughter, just left off the s like a dummy. I fixed it but you were too quick. My kid hates snuggling. It makes my wife sad.. haha
I must have tunnel vision because I didn't even notice!
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I knew it was your daughter, just left off the s like a dummy. I fixed it but you were too quick. My kid hates snuggling. It makes my wife sad.. haha
My daughter is slightly younger than your boy, but we have had similar issues. Regressed a bit, a lot of attention seeking, and what not. She has gotten better as the month have gone on though, but there was definitely an adjustment period.Anybody else's kid have some trouble after you had a second one? Not like setting fires type of trouble, but sort of regressing a bit, getting into trouble at pre-school, not listenting, etc? How long did it last and did you do anything to make it better?
I feel awful for my boy right now because I think he's struggling a bit. I almost feel bad punishing him because it's very uncharacteristic of him and I know it's just a little cry for attention. Trying to give him some goals to reach with the prize of him and I going out to do some special things on the weekends, but I hate the situation. He's always really sweet to his baby sister, but I know something's not right in his head.
When my son was born, my daughter became quite attached to me. So, we started doing things together just her and I. When my wife would be with the little guy, I would find something to do with my daughter to make her not feel left out. Also, we asked her to help a lot as well. She would go get diapers, wipes, toys, etc for him.Dammit. The old 'time heals all wounds' thing lol. I figured as much. I'm really going to try the positive reinforcement here and see if we can make that work.
Anybody else's kid have some trouble after you had a second one? Not like setting fires type of trouble, but sort of regressing a bit, getting into trouble at pre-school, not listenting, etc? How long did it last and did you do anything to make it better?
I feel awful for my boy right now because I think he's struggling a bit. I almost feel bad punishing him because it's very uncharacteristic of him and I know it's just a little cry for attention. Trying to give him some goals to reach with the prize of him and I going out to do some special things on the weekends, but I hate the situation. He's always really sweet to his baby sister, but I know something's not right in his head.
That's sort of what I was thinking boss. He's had two weekends now that were basically shot because I felt like I had to address behavior with him. At the same time, I want to give him something to work towards with a decent payoff. We still have done things with just him in the last month, but I'm thinking we may need to do a little more.
Here is some professional advice we were given regarding behavioral modification and kids .... instead of doing punishments (what comes more naturally to my old school brain) have him work toward rewards and make the increment for whatever the expectation is small at first so he can achieve it. Then gradually increase what he needs to do to reach the reward. The increase can be a longer duration of the original expectation (e.g., 2 hours of X instead of 1 hour) or it can be multiples of the expectation (e.g., any two instances of 1 hour of X). If you find he can't reach the reward (even if you think it is already small enough that he should reach it), decrease the expectancy until he does reach it. If you get to the point where you are doing multiple instances of the expectation it can be very helpful to have a visual aid present where he can see his progress.
I like that. Sort of what I thought I'd try to today. One good day at pre-school equals him and I going to dinner tonight, which is something he likes to do. Then if he can keep it up we'll go do something a little more exciting on the weekend. Thanks for that!
The one thing we tried to do with both of our kids is to get them involved in the rewards and the punishment. We found that of they were part of the discussion (ahead of time) then they could take some ownership to the ups and downs. But I feel like the new addition is adding stress to his feeling like he matters and is just as important as the young lady in the house.
I'd just ask if he had a younger sister.I like that too! You guys rule.
He's definitely feeling a bit forgotten, even though he certainly hasn't been. Gotta try to put myself in his shoes though. If Erica brought home a cuter, younger version of me I'd probably have a complex hehehe
That's one of the toughest pills to swallow when it comes to my two kids, I just want to fix it right now, not wait!!!Dammit. The old 'time heals all wounds' thing lol. I figured as much. I'm really going to try the positive reinforcement here and see if we can make that work.
read this post about a babies first poop: http://www.reddit.com/r/funny/comments/1al80a/my_nephew_taking_his_first_****/c8yfrmy
literally had me in tears. Just some nsfw language, but if you're in the parenting thread i'm sure you can handle it.
sadly state laws would not allow for me to tie him up and hit him with the garden hose like the poo-demon pinata that he was
"Baby tupperware" was what got me the worst hahahaha.hahahahahaah
Here's my little fireball.